by Matilda Branson
Sitting in Nepal, where I live and work, I see what is happening at home in Australia and despair at national politics. As you may have heard, our first woman Prime Minister, Julia Gillard, was ousted by Kevin Rudd on Wednesday, who won a Labor party leadership ballot 57-45.
I’m not going to get into the particulars regarding the petty leadership struggles and lack of unity of the Labor party because, well, as a rule politics is never clean or courteous. So I write this as a definite political fence-sitter as I find both major parties – the vaguely “left” Labour Party and the conservative Liberals – equally uninspiring and often depressing. Hence I’m not going to contend with Gillard’s leadership, or Labor policies here.
What really distresses me – and a fair whack of the Australian population, both men and women – has been the downright rude, belittling, disrespectful and sexist treatment of Julia Gillard by political opponents, the media and the general Australian public throughout her time in power.
The first day Gillard came into power, one paper reported that the most Googled search in Australia for the day was, “Does Julia Gillard have a husband/boyfriend?” or “Is Julie Gillard married/have children?”
Sad. And this preoccupation with her gender has continued to plague her throughout her time in power.
In the past few months, the so-called “gender wars” between opposition leader Tony Abbot and Gillard have increased. The media has gone wild, the feminist movement is baffled and split, and the general population is a bit embarrassed and generally disgusted. Sadly, the pettiness of it all has served to put an already disinterested younger generation even further off Australian politics.
Living and working in Kathmandu, Nepal, people are asking me if it is normal how sexist and disrespectful Australia has been towards its PM. Recently the opposition Liberal party was publicly embarrassed about revelations of a fundraising dinner menu in March, featured a dish called “Julia Gillard Kentucky Fried Quail – Small Breasts, Huge Thighs and a Big Red Box”.
In mid-June on a Perth radio program, talkback radio host Howard Sattler had the nerve to ask Gillard whether her live-in partner, Tim Mathieson, was gay. Why? Because Tim Mathieson is also a hairdresser (with three adult children grown), and god forbid a man could be a hairdresser and straight. Would this kind of question have been posed to a male PM as to the sexuality of his wife? Are we suddenly asking Rudd, the new PM, if his wife Therese is a lesbian?
And I won’t even get onto the deplorable opposition leader Tony Abbot. His views on women and abortion… It’s just too painful and depressing. Look him up yourself. But at least Gillard gave him what-for when he was acting particularly misogynistic in the House of Representatives last year.
In Gillard’s resignation speech she mentioned how as Australia’s first female PM, she hopes she that women leaders who come after her will find the road a little easier to navigate. I really hope so, but I have some fears.
I am worried that a generation of young women leaders in Australia will see the treatment of our first woman PM, and think, “I never want to face that”, or even worse: “She had to face that kind of treatment, so I should just grin and bear it when I face insults or sexism at work/school, etc… Julia Gillard had it much worse than me.”
At the heart of all this, what I find intolerable is that the insults and degrading treatment of Gillard were neither tacit nor confined to the political arena – they were public and brazen, because people thought it was ok to speak that way to a woman. And it is that culture of public acceptance, which can begin on such a small scale but have such devastating ramifications over time, that in turn generates the million and one discriminations we see against women throughout the world.
Violence against women becomes normalised because it is publicly accepted by society at large, because at some point, a woman was hit, and everyone else stood by and watched, accepting it either through silence and doing nothing, or agreement. Women become second-class citizens because there is public acceptance – by politicians, the media, communities – that it is ok to treat a woman in a certain way because she is a woman, with the load of assumptions and belief systems that underlie such treatment.
I have always been relatively proud of Australia’s dedication towards a “fair go” for all and its treatment of women, but the ugly treatment of Gillard has been exactly that – ugly and shameful – and geez I hope we pick up our game soon.
(photo by Nick D., cc-licensed via Wikimedia Commons)